Coz of constantly badly back condition, I must stop, my 4 week, to nurse old baby. Do you please help me!!?

I have a healthy baby, but nursing was extremely painful, coz from a continuous one back condition, that I have had for years. Every burden brings to have me to it, heavy pain and a gigantic swelling, with high fever. I weiß that is breastmilk good, but I, \'m goes, that displaces with burden. It become annoy me erschreckt\'ll oneöses wreck. I continue to cry the whole day. I want aufhören, to nurse him/it and to want him/it, disaccustoms. PLEASE please me jugge dont. Please advice I on, as it is to be done,... PLEASE HELP I.....

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You/they are no dreadful mother; You/they have heavy pains. So much pain undermines your tolerance in order to emphasize. Burden is für you or the baby not healthy. Burden can f to itühren after par hood depression. Don\'t ließ somebody you brand feeling guiltily.

Please ask beore with your doctor, who starts none of these suggestions.

Several matters will help your pain: Going, mild lengthening, water exercise, massage and alternate heat and ice packs. Some people get help of acupuncture or a chiropractor.

If the pain and the burden don\'t ease, you strive the help of a specialist.

Take a nap while the baby sleeps. EinmalEinmal per week, you bring a verhältnismäßigen or adult babysitters to it, to stay with the baby some hours long, in order to give you any alone time. On the other days, you get out the house and bring you f the babyür a walk from his/her-Kutsche. this endpractice will reduce your burden and will give you time to bind alone in the course of time. In the house, game, that calms down music, and to the baby, you play games like flüchtigem gaze a boo and so on

If you hold the baby, you sit in a chair with good, solid support. Put a pillow on your Schoß, about the baby hochzuziehen\'s-Gesicht nearer you, so that you are not bent onward. To thepillows, for additional support, are sold ück into each medical supply store.

I understand your pain because I have spinal cord\'s problems. After my son had been born, I was in pain, and I didn\'t nurse him/it. Between the c-Teil and the heavier BrI could not move my neck üsten for alsmost two years. My Rit became ücken so bad that the doctor sent me to a pain clinic. My mommy mußte come and first per week with the baby, help. Thank Güte, my son was an easy baby.

I nursed my daughter, but I could tolerate only the backache some months long. The pain was so bad, thereß I drily doesn\'t drive you several months long. I began, she/it with 3 months too entwöhnen.

Disaccustoming:

Buy, a breast pumps and expresses the milk some weeks long. Use the formula or soy milk f the breast milkür feedings inbetween. Go allmählich on it all a formula food for the baby.

Her/its/their breasts will be sore, but it is important not to nurse or expresses your milk after the baby is full time on the bottle. Warm Bäder-Hilfe. Eisgelschachtel eases the pain in the Brüsten. Wear a BRA with good lowermostützung. After rises youört has to nurse, Motrin or Advil will help the pain.

If your fever 101 is, or higher and your breast is hard and red, you probably have an infection. See baldmöglichst the doctor.

I wish you success as feeling better. The baby will thrive, if better you itself fühlen.

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Thank everyone for all answers. After I had announced my question, beschloß I him/it to breatfeed until it it atleast 3 mths. I believe, thereß it also PPD could be. Thanks something always, that I beschließe, for all solutions.

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disaccustoms him/it peroids him/it from MOMMY585 first from you, because it does sore, for long the time to hold, or because the elevated size of your breasts does, your back hurts more badly? If it is cuz, it hurts, him/it dafür, to stand by nurse, this long considered you to buy a breast pump or to rent... the electric type, the way, that you can still provide him/it with breastmilk, to must without him/it on the manner holds, demanded to work as a nurse. If it is, the Brustgr begins cuzöße then, to disaccustom him/it on formula, no milk intimidates a child \'t. good full age at least until one year one of the isnfür co my daughter caught her/it/them less bresast I only on every day, over one ounce with a time difference, to give milks and more formula. Guarantee, thereß you him/it gradually otherwisse does, maybe you become very sore, and maybe your baby is blocked. Before beginning würde I differnt-Arten from formula, in order to find one, looks at that this baby likes. My daughter loved Infamil ouchßer wouldn\'t-Berührung Similac with all, so that, if I gave it to her/it/them, she/it would reject,... look of all possibilities and finds, that a baby with it is okay and doesn\'t block him/it,... some hospitals distributes tests of them, you trouble your local hospital to see and to leave, knows she/it, what you try to do, then would be more cheaply being tried this one can of every brand buying. Glück.

from AmberHCG, I would love to help you, but I really don\'t understand your question... like nurses burden the preparing of you? The hormones in it actually are some the WELL Belastungsabschwächer. , To be emphasized Es\'s totally normally, if you have a newborn,... and nursing is the best matter a mommy, who is emphasized, or, to suffer PPD, can do. It sounds like you, maybe PPD has... I würde with your doctor speaks and possibly gets an anti-depressant, that is compatible with care.

you sell breastmilk also human of EK at stores if you still want that your baby has good milk with all antibiotics and the matters.

through expectin... please doesn\'t stress you. . . Her/its/their baby will be as well like finely with the formula. , my daughter in three years was only sick once, and she/it was gefütterte formula, she/it is also a very light clever child,
There is alternative milk, but there is only one mother for your child, he/it earns to you, you have mothering and nurturing, didn\'t emphasize.
I was also judged, but to take the trouble to please others made me a total basket case, and I did what was the best in my situation.
You/they can always pump, the milk there is machines, that should not disturb your back, you then fill feed your breast milk.

through babasbha.... first from all, is not emphasized. I am sure, thereß all those mothers from there you will say, we all went through it. Initially, I had also this problem.

A good idea would be to be laid down and to nourish your baby. Place yourself f with pillowsür you and your baby one, so that you are comfortable. But, Don\'t does it if away you are likely to sleep.

I would alternate with sitting on a straight backed chair and a lie defeat position. This way, that the Rücken none of too many burdens had.

Secondly, you ask your doctor to give you a good analgesic. Any keen Ibuprofen helps.

The other reason, why you probably have pains, is because your breasts pump now much milk. This is if they are become saturated and also pain, the thrill and fevers, to theück can cause. Don\'t-Sorge... this becomes also in 2-3 days passes. You/they könnten expresses or the excess milk pumps.

At the important, practice sea, that breathes, if you nurse your lil one. This helps relax for you, will help your baby, more too syour problems look and ease.

You/they say this more, you loosen the better, that it is for your own one and the baby\'s healthy development.

Be careful, and I will pray for you.

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for Jo, you please make your self more comfortable, while him/it i to feed, a tri-Kissen had, but you can bring from two pillows to placing into a triangle behind you, you then put a pillow on your lap so that you don\'t change color in order to feed him/it. he/it doesn\'t come to you in the other way about you and hält please, to cry it, will be O.K., therefore if comes the most badly to worst, and you must stop breast to feed him/it there, is pumps and it, doesnt doesn\'t mean you, gonna loves, he/it prepares only Jargon-breat-Futter for you. know how you feel tho. much embrace thinks both of you..

through cherry you let you tried to use a pillow behind your back or both of you, that puts on your sides down, in order to feed him/it? This, which over a boppy, that helps since you really maybe, it only about you, then put him/it on working as a nurse... then can you caresses him/it it, that works to hold as a nurse without him/it, during it. Other than those Möglichkeiten, you could always pump your breastmilk if you really want that he/it has the benefits of breastmilk.
If you are dead-decided to disaccustom him/it, I propose that you do it in that you replace one day of care with one bottle one gradually. I würde removes a nursing session and replaces it with one bottle every 3 or 4 days. This way, your Br,üste is not become saturated painfully, sore, and leaky. Breastmilk is produced on a supply and a demand basis..., so that, if the demand goes down, that will remove supply.
Hope, that helps, luck with you decision.

through blooming camomile, you don\'t emphasize request over it. I weiß, as you feel. I really, really wanted to nurse and für many reasons it didn\'t works for us. Fühlte I me awfully over it, but you know something? We make the best, that we können.

Does a possibility pump for you? If not, dort\'s-Formel. my son was formula, that, ouchßer all of over one ounce, and he/it was fed, \'s-Geldstrafe and healthy. It will be okay. Don\'t-Sorge. if everyone judges you, they place wei auf\'tß, that your situation and it are no one of her/its/their business.

I don\'t know about breast to bottle like too ween. Maybe you/they wants treat your baby sehen\'s so that he/it can recommend a formula, that is suitable. Did you also consider to see your doctor? The fact, thereß Sie\'wieder to cry the whole day brings me to thinking of nach-partum-Depression. You/they place auf\'t-Bedürfnis this and it can be controlled. Anyway, best Wünsche and please places auf\'t emphasizes over it.