How stops i, do 14 months, that use me as comfort, think to nurse old son as sleeping?

hello my 14 month old son is still nursed during the night and as, to go, to sleep during the day.he, never, the dummy of a baby took, and everyone tells me that un a dummy of him/it.
he/it drinks Kühe-Milch and juicesnout the bottles, and sippy makes hollow during the day and if we are from him/it, the credit will fall exactly asleep into the stroller or the car without me to it, fed him/it only is, if we are at home, and he/it must live from me and during the night.
please help i to it, would love any advice, like, to stop, him/it too quiet is.
thankyou
Chloe

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It can be frustrating very much if you are ready that to have the sleep of this wholeness night and your baby still the the whole night of lasting milk pole wants. Während I supports, mommies yearn, who nurse as it, as she/it, you want, there a point comes where you must consider your own needs. A fourteen month alto is fähig to it, to go through the night without care, you, that none of Nazis nurse, place so auf\'t-Mietfrist to tell you troubles, that you will starve or rob him/it through the desire from him/it without sleeping a small thing through the night.

As this time for me came, we had to do some alterations. First from all mußte baby to his/its own room pulls. We had him/it in our room, and often in our bed, up to then, but if he/it my present spüren could, he/it would wake up, you smooth if he/it needs didn\'t for it. After some weeks Alteration, during which I the house three or had to cross four times per night it was time to be worked him/it as a nurse, as he/it woke up, that to cut strings. I place auf\'t believes at leaving babies, you shout it out alone in her/its/their beds, therefore my husband moved f into the baby\'s areaür a while, and nighttime wakings became his/its responsibility. Because it my gig alone für the last two years was, he/it was very understanding over it. Surprising was not it traumatically like me, believed, that it would be. It hätte never for me, to go in and to take the trouble, works to comfort him/it without care because to hold him/it and rejects to work as a nurse, would have made him/it only furious. But it produced this if I wasn\'t, about the milk there to the Verfügung, to put, baby gave up fast beautifully and to be comforted by daddy were content. We did, thereß for a few weeks, and then, my husband withdrew to our room. From this, you point to it, as baby woke up in the night, daddy went to him/it and ließ itself down, he/it gives in. It still was a few months, before he/it slept through it the night, but for the first time, I got enough sleep in two years, and all were fine. Babies appear. You/they don\'t become für life traumatizes in that one learns, through, to sleep, to work as a nurse without every three hours.

You/they don\'t mention if you have a husband/partner, that can help you with it. If you are one single mommy, könnten you a near friend or a family member, to help you, asks. It really makes a großen difference because you itself as yearn as you, is with night, that he/it will expect, to be worked as a nurse, that a comforting baby and is excited, if it is rejected, that will extend matters, and you will give up in order to go back only to sleep.

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My own children... one disaccustomed approximately with 3.5 and another in order to be with 16 months of night-disaccustoming because I need any sleep!

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through the reality: "everyone says me about making fool that un a dummy of him/it"

I want to say, that \'these people were pulled up by wolves\', but I guess that wolves have more maternal instinct,...

Useful reading: Start to less often give it to him/it.
If he/it howls, because it then placed your finger (clean) or a passy in his/its mouth.
Maybe it is difficult, but finally he/it recognizes that he/it must live with it.

through nostalgi... OK gives it two separate questions here, one is his/its dependence on it to be nursed for falling asleep, and the second disaccustoms in general. the first question probably is, why you him/it in the first place entwöhnen wants, and you should get done with it before trying to cure him/it completely of your breast. i wit recommends ürde, because he/it has a plan, you say one week long to remain at home previously and during the nap times and at least a hour before bedtime, in order to have time for a correct bedtime, and naps, routine times. begin through the doing of a Schläfchenzeit and a bedtime routine of a history, a song, day an one cuddles you itself, a bath, massage or everything you it always from these or something to be both fun does, this comforts and relaxes. für the first day, you nurse him/it in order to as usually sleep. amam second day, you place with his/its Schläfchen away, you time routine and nurse you him/it, about to nap time, therefore he/it, to schlafen\'lll is leaned well for bedtime. with bedtime, you do his/its routine again, but this time hört on, to nurse, before he/it falls asleep, and continues, you rock him/it for itself to cuddle or at all, but stops you the minute, that he/it begins to drive to sleep, knows the phase, if they close there, looks at and opens her/it/them and closes her/it/them again and so on back, and puts him/it in the bed and the permission. if he/it anfängt, to cry, and you are comfortable with letting cry him/it for short intervals, would recommend i, you use the Ferber-Methode and let him/it yell the comforting only of him/it after longer intervals with you through words between it, ich\'m sure will be many people on the other hand, but i believes, that it works, and i believes that is sufficiently old a 14 month old during the night in order to sit down to sleep after a relaxing bedtime routine if he/it is used alot for nursing, then, you should abolish his/its nightime feedings one about one gradually, but you should control her/it/them, in that he/it regulates her/it/them to certain times and she/it abolishes gradually through the reducing of the crowd, he/it takes everytime. say, thereß he/it, to normally call the desire of a feed, instead of waiting on him/it, you with 12, wakes up, you wake up him/it only on one tiny little earlier, you feed him/it less than his/its regular feeding time for some mins, says you, that he/it lives for 15 mins, nourish you for itself for 10, somewhat less, as actually doesn\'t nourish 5 mins for itself and should be abolished gradually on the first night, and put back him/it AWAKE to the bed. You/they should continue, him/it während the day\'s, to nurse, but only if it doesn\'t awaken it for sleeping. eses wäre a tough week, but until the end of the week, he/it should be disaccustomed alone totally with nighttime and falling asleep and he/it could alone actually cure himself of your breast with day, my daughter did that, spins from her were only bored with nursing, it wanted for sleep with it if she/it, that still needs it for sleep, preferred her/it/them wasn\'t to drink from one cup or fills, you place auf\'t of course had cried him/it with night, if you think, he/it could be sick or in pain or at all, and anbehält a nightlight and is particular cuddly and affectionate in the morning and praises which young profit, that he/it did, as he/it had sat down to sleep.


if you find, that he/it still wants to nurse, and you still want to cure him/it of it. You/they should try, technologies, me, too entwöhnen\'m not very familiar with them, but you could begin by offering cup or bottle instead of your breast, that then offers your breast for gradually shorter periods, and feedings becoming saturated itself/themselves less, until you nursing, that would prevent also your breasts of development, completely out dwindles and hurting of you, if you suddenly disaccustomed him/it. Glück