Seeking guiltily after stationary nursing?

I have, old baby, as my baby was born, had increase a 9 month as big milk supply I, as my 5 month of matters turned baby only, to go, started incorrectly, I pumped milk sufficiently not with the work and my milk, ran lower, I was capable to continue nursing, until he/it was in 7, but it was that, lately, I do less than one ounce or 2 per day, I used 32 on the average, I had to stop to nurse some days long because of any medicine, that I, and meanwhile, the baby rejects even the breast. the problem is, thereß ich\'m, he/it feels so bad that I must stop breastfeeding,I\'m almost depressed over it does stomach-aches I, if I think about nursing, and sometimes, I become harsh on the baby, who takes the trouble to force him/it to nurse, but he/it nevertheless rejects to it that I feel really bad and need helps become must to represent a way to live with the fact, that holds any day I,.. I knows that more heavily I and this been able to work, am I, itself which brands bad feels, is there any hope that I can get back my milk? if not, as I can thereover gotten?

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Today that I decided to give it up and to stop to take the trouble did I ounce and I yesterday the whole day anyway only feels, that I can take the burden no more, but I feel like it, the worst day of my life is, I do the right matter: I have no friends or the family, that this decision can support or can tell me, if I do the right matter, and I never felt so bad,

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Thanks to a Losmama for your help, you really bring me to feeling itself better... with it you thinks, do I do the right matter?? the first day is today, I really stop to nurse, should I only go now to sleep and forget it, or maybe I should give him/it one chance more and run to my pump? if there is one Möglichkeit, to stop them/her/it, to nurse, any hormonal alteration, that makes me so depressed, makes ready?

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If it causes you burden, it is time to be given a break to itself. I schetch me happily because, although I work myself full-time didn, this has pass you out \'t. Thank God. However, many do.

You/they must give an easy hit to itself on the back. You/they müssen itself proud feels, that you hung 9 months long in there. From the Klyou worked very heavily ängen from it, this for 9 months and this alone one, that must be you very with pride on itself, to do.

If you say, "I" nursed it opinion PROUD. I höre so often, "now, I nursed, but I had to hold with X-Monaten"... no, you, that are still nursed. Be proud, thereß you it did. Her/its/their baby had really good stuff 9 months, and according to all reports, he/it is willing to continue.

Act, you need an embrace, because it sounds like you, it!

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WennWenn you now pumps, you are probably gotten not much because you are at the wenigsten-voll in the evening. WennWenn you to it wants, pump in the morning or put it only away. Gives to make you the permission for itself, thereß, and your baby embraces. YOU/THEY have a wonderful matter f in the last 9 monthsdone ür him/it.

I want that you consider to talk with your doctor about the depression. You/they könnten nach-partum and it haben\'s-Einbruch is in the first year somewhere. You/they müssen good worry of itself takes and nurses or not. Her/its/their baby needs you, and you need THEM.

Reception good worry!

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through new mommy speech to your doctor. I mußte of nursing also early resigns. My problem was really sick for more my son and lack of lowermostützung at home. One year später and my son is simply fine. ErEr had formula the rest of the first year. Her/its/their baby becomes sufficiently old, thereß he/she could begin to ween, and that is, why rejecting of the breast. I wouldn\'t gets to troubled thereover and resigned to thrash itself/themselves. If your depression continues speech to your doctor,

through mommyx3, I nursed my son, until he/it 12 months old was!! I had to hold, because he/it bit!!, but then smooths me, that am felt guiltily,... he/it now is 19 months, and I still wish, that I would not have held, I miss the quality time and him/it the needing" "of me... it is normal to fill this way!! besides congratulations to it, it, to do 9 months!!!! you is a big mommy!

from yellow B, that this is a personal opinion, therefore the nursing mommies, you please don\'t jump on me....

My daughter never breastfead. Period. We have an astonishing bond, she/it is healthy 120 percent, she/it is kl in her/its/their classüger as most of the children, and I would not have changed any matter.

Feel happy that you were capable to nurse for the time, that you did. Many women können not. Keep it as your K in mindörper\'s-Weg, to inform you of it, is time to be held. If he/it rejects the breast, he/it tells you, he/it had enough. With nine months aß my small girl solids and less dependent on the bottle.

Remember, you small boy is once only nine months. He/it fängt from so much with a trip at "first and if you are consumed with your feeling of the blame, you will miss some of the best times in his/its life.

Hang in there, this will pass! Children are astonishing!

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through socorro0... is you WITH PRIDE ON itself! 9 months long, to nurse, is unbelievable. I was only fähig, to make it 10 days long. every hour pumped i and never was fähig, to get more than 1 oz. Spins from me formed a cyst in my breast, and the whole milk gathered in the management. I fühlte me also like a dreadful mother and was not capable to possibly provide my daughter with the best nutrition, but your child is 9 months and possibly got the best beginning. there are worst matters in the world, as not this being fähig, to nurse. You/they are a große mommy, if you are even not disturbed then by it wouldnt. Look at all wonderful matters that you do and für your child, who should help the unnecessary blame you with some, did feels.

through adam/pen... thinks you at it as nature, that takes it, nothing, which you can do on the other hand, is course and it gives. i agrees, thereß you proud should be, that you made it for the whole time, that you did. be glad.
Be successful too ya-Mama

through pride mom, I know about 4 how you feel. I had difficulties of nursing with my son. I pumped, took pills, and verschli,ß me complete. IchIch had also a terrble-Tropfen in my hormones, that to it führten, after par hood depression, to the point, where I fast suicidally was. I didn\'t have anything thereover read.

Thinks you have done I, that part of the fight assumes the decision. Give to him/it any time für your body, to level itself/themselves. Watch from für depression. You/they sound like a große mommy. Good work dafür, to nourish baby so long. I held with my son with 6 months. I continued, 2 years long my daughter too ernheads, and my second daughter 17 months long, until she/it disaccustomed herself.

from Mathushi... good

Honored sister,
greet to Q&A-Teil
I understood your big feelings for your child.
Follow your last decision.
Basiclly, the six month enough child stuff, in order to live as well other diets.you, has maybe child gives nice rice with dhal, idly(indian tiffen and biscuts.
Consent
Continue
Through
Her/its/their tender one
Mathushiri

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through jaxnbrow.... you should not feel bad for everything. I held the Füttern all four of my daughters about 10 months old breast at, because they were a sippy-Tasse at this point to the application sufficiently old, and although shy a few months of he/it recommend it to time was, them cow s-Milch, to feed, I did it anyway, and they only punished. Alto got your baby the benefits, that your breast milk offered, already by nine months. Maybe you/they miss the Intimität, to bind with your baby, whom you found out through care, but this doesn, \'t lasts eternally. Her/its/their small one now is sufficiently old, thereCan eat of ß he/it baby food and one of both formula, juice or cow can drink, \'s milks from one bottle or a sippy-Tasse. Maybe you/they also like a bißchen at Pfahl-partum-Depression. If past, after a few weeks, you still are your baby, you should name your doctor, not nursing despairs. Otherwise, look of the light side. You/they have your Körper now officially back. Celebrate this. Begin an efficiency routine, you go yourself a quite new BRA, you have a Getränk! Her/its/their baby only punishes. You/they did a good work to work him/it as a nurse, and he/it will earn the benefits of your good decision. And you will also be O.K.. Please favor it auf\'t-Blick as one mißerfolg on your part. Sie\'wieder a working mother, who created this, which much stay with Heimatmüttern doesn\'t make. Glückwunsche!

through Mary C dont Gefühl bad for it, not to be capable, to nurse. at least you got, für a while, to nurse. i wasnt fähig to breast feed with all. my milk never came, now, i sufficiently never produced, about my baby zufriedenzustellen\'s-Hunger, i sought quite awfully after it, not f,ähig, to be, to nourish my child, however she/it, warmed to well for one bottle, and was as stressed wasnt also glad, i i, because knew i, my baby ate well. as itself i to breast bemühte, you feed her/it/them, it seemed that she/it would stink long. and she/it müßte itself like each 15 nourishes or early. therefore decided i according to two to three weeks of neither my baby nor me who get every sleep, itself, to give her/its/their formula. and she/it is well it, i, \'m punish. because your baby is 7 months old, he/it probably goes to relaxed interest in breast, that anyway itself ernährt, he/it will be interested games more in this. i weiß, that it is difficult and stressful, breast feeding, to stop you, however, \'ll gets through it and you will be glad, and our baby becomes so. you have such a hard duration with it sorrowfully i\'m ouchßer it, you look at it this way; better earlier than later right?!

from Adeline, you nursed 9 months long. You/they should be very proud of itself. Don\'t verprügelte itself. Es\'s not like your baby wants to nurse, and you don\'t do only it. You/they continue, itself too bemühen. You/they should applaud your performance and should give any credit to itself. Most Mütter resigns, you yearn before you did. ICHauf you proud \'m!

from ArmyWife dont, you feel bad nursing 9 months long for itself, was more, as i could go. it tried 1 weeks long i and had because of the epidurals-i horrrrrible-Kopfschmerzen and landed in order to nurse was soo, the more awfully i nauseas bec the headaches feels würde. i felt badly sooo, if it still makes couldnt i and cried so very much, because i, so that wanted despretly to it. but then i relized how much more easily is feed it abzufüllen. good work, although i i-Dose with my nächsten hopes.

through pjandkat... my two cents, to only add,.... my son never understood nursing, therefore I pumped 4.5 months long. I got entw from pumping with itässert, I decided to last, but I occupied myself a while for it before unbelievable blame. I understand the thoughts of the knowledge vollständig, that I increase been able to do, I still pumped 30-35 oz/day as I decided to hold. I muRecognizes ßte finally, that I had made the best, could I for him/it. Me too verprügeln, the situation won\'t improve, or makes him/it gladder any. So, I cuddle, he/it schließt, during I him/it of one bottle feeds and the time uses if I, about pumping, used the gamble with him/it and, to pass out enjoying of our time together. You/they are only this age für so long.... Don\'t loses it in it, absorbed with matters, that you cannot control.
Enjoy small so precious!!!!

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through lovebein... I knows, as you unite this feels, which. I never can really liked BF h however ich\'tält for any reason. I was "says, thereß I now for months will hold. I am ZuZu of this time in the morning and with night BF. I plan as it interjected the morning soon, and do only once per day. My son becomes deflected and i soßt only for one min and another here, there I feel like it that each way is quite pointless. The single time is, that I pumped, before first, I go to work, I get only 1-2 oz. Other than, thereß he/it on formula is. You/they made a große work, in that you went to 9 months. Don\'t fühlt itself guiltily, it is what is the best for him/it at this time. My milk decreased between 6-8 months, as he/it many solid Körper ate, a quantity. I fühle me also guiltily, but I take the trouble not to think about it because I take the trouble to keep it, what a big matter, that I did for my son, in mind in that I made it so long. You/they could any milk to theückbekommen, if really roughly you, nursing und/oder pumping ONE PLUMB works. The more stimulation this more milk, his/its so easy one, yes right, as it. If you kthis makes önnen, \'t, you are glad with your decision and has told nobody to you, you didn\'t do any big work! Most of the best benefits come in the first 6 months. Please place auf\'t accuses itself.

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I am one WHETHER RN, that separates no really more to BF, wants feelings sad/guilty when holding and has old son a formidable 10 month.

through in COGNITO * I definitely spent my whole pregnancy, that I would become breast feed. I didn\'t buys bottles or formula. After the brith, I lost so much blood, along which itself my system schloß, one I couldn\'t produces each milk. I fühlte me like we therefore misses something loves. I wäre with it greatful, if I been able to make it only for one small while. Be für binding of you gratefully, you already have strenghtened. Don\'t fühlt itself bad. If you on breat-Fütterung exists, you have longer Dr. for you. give you a pro-lactin-Schuß Ihre milk supply too increse.