You/they stop to nurse,.. Help!?

My son is 22 months old, he/it will be at the end of April 2. I do full time, but if the first matter gets i home, he/it wants to do, breast feed, not so very w, isährend the day, but definitely he/it needs it, that was placed to sleep, with night. I DEFINITELY want to hold, before he/it 2 year old schlägt, but i can, \'t even starts he/it is fortified soo to be introduced itself/themselves, as it will make i. I breast ernährte his/its older brother, until he/it was 10 months, & as I held, it was easily, this time is ONE differently for PLUMB. Favors Vorschläge?

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I don\'t want to put him/it on the bottle because they should be distant around the bottle around 2 or 3 anyways. I würde answers estimate ONLY through mothers, who nursed b/c, that she/it know, how the experience is, COMPLETELY different than the bottle.

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from Vanya

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You/they suddenly don\'t want to bring him/it to stopping to work as a nurse because you then start the risk to get mastitis! That is dreadful, I place wei auf\'tß, whether you had it before, but it is not only value, that occupies itself with it!

It sounds like you, you probably into a good solid nighttime routine gets. You/they place auf\'t, one bottle wants to give him/it, this trades only a problem für another!

I, the best way, read to disaccustom from the breast, is like follows:
allow 5 minutes on the breast only per side, you yearn sufficiently not for him/it to become really comfortable, to remove him/it and to give him/it a sippy-Tasse milk if you are done. Remove the time by one minute every time if it gets one minute on one of both side, hält and offers him/it only a sippy-Tasse.

He/it could get the idea that it simply is no value it none more, and disaccustoms itself before you must work to far down.

He/it must learn also a self, that technology of his/its own one calms down. You/they könnten daddy him/it with night on the bed lets lead back, while you went, you leave the house!, f,ür some nights.

Maybe you/they want to set up for it also a good routine to bring something like it to the bed:

7:00 have nighttime small thing: milk in a sippy-Tasse and maybe some animal cookies or w/e,
7:15 brush teeth and gets in jammies
7:30 dormant family gambles: something like reading books, doing of some easy puzzles, when playing a quiet game.
7:45 in the bed, ignites out, quiet music on, embraces and kisses.
8:00 Elternblätter-Zimmer and child goes to sleep, power is tenaciously with first, but better with time,

Because he/it slept in his/its bed from himself, you don\'t want to change this.

We bought sippy cups for our son some tanners beginners, they have a softer faucet to beverage from it and are good for transitioning from working as a nurse to it to use a sippy-Tasse.

He/it is probably interested more in it to be near you as actually care. Have blankie its favorite, animal or something stuffed and spend any duration with him/it in a quiet relaxed surroundings. Leave yourself time with this routine, you give much time to your family to slow down and to relax together before going to the bed.

I know about experience that there is very small in order to continue on it on the manner from there to disaccustom \'because of the gigantic ammount of the pressure of the breast\' until they are willing to give up! I place auf\'t is correct with this philosophy in agreement. Anyway, I hope, thereß this you helps!

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from Victoria slowly ween he/it from, you would do the same matter with the bottle

you know about Christine L that this a behavioral question and a power struggle is. Tell him/it, thereß he/it a big young is, and this care is not anything, which big boys do. Instead, you become a Getr for him/itänk gives and reads him/it a history, he/it wants nestling only maybe, you will stick at it, must, and doesn\'t give in. Remember, thereß he/it itself not unloved feels, (you) only quality duration spent ve with him/it, and that you don\'t remove anything, which he/it needs nutritionally, or developmentally.

through tinnily, you interject a feed only to one time. Offer a cup/sippy of water or milk. If he/it is excited, trösten you him/it. Tell him/it, thereß you knows, and you love him/it. Offer show an others way "Loves" of night.

from GranolaM..., why want you to hold? If it is the birthday das\'s, this comes up her/it, veranlaßt this?

EsEs sounds like really working as a nurse, helps you reconnect you your son at the end of a long day. If still das\'s, the für you as part of your parenting works, it doesn\'t have to hold.

The Worldhealthorganisation recommends to work as a nurse for a minimum of two years. The AAP recommends, für a minimum of one year, to work as nurses, and so long after it, how you want to it. Care still has benefits für your son, who yearns as as him/it, \'s-Pflege.

through shellynn.... with night, as he/it wants to live, troubles you for itself to lie with a pillow between him/it and your breast in the bed with him/it. It will allow it him/it, in which of Nähe, to be from you, and you don\'t have to feed him/it. First it it, that goes, you thereover, to fight, but places only away to put back the pillow between you. Maybe this finishes, difficult für you, to be, as it is for him/it. Stay consistent in it, to let known him/it, thereß you no more nurses. How still something with children, if you then give in him/it once, ll expects this at any point, in which you will give the rest of the time. A part of him/it, that itself ernmaybe it simply wants be heads, as soon as you come home, that he/it, while he/it feeds this, knows times \'s for him/it and mommy however to spend together. Find other matters to do with him/it, and please, you please remain consistent.

through guesswha... only holds you and gives you to your child a sippy-Tasse. Children need you for him/it supply him/it. only tell him/it, you are dryed on finished

from Truth_ma... please considers you..... stretched that is nursing with it bennificial..... let he/it holds, if HE/IT is ready,... disaccustoming goes about the child, who is ready,.. and your small one is no ready hun unequivocally.

from Kristie + baby #3, that I think, that you must explain it to only him/it. He/it is almost 2 so that he/it will understand if you tell him/it, thereß Ihr gonna holds! Use a table and say, thereß we 7 further days has,.. and executes the countdown. Cut maybe theück the time, if he/it can work as a nurse every night. DieserDieser way maybe on the last day es\'s only für 3 mintues.
Buy him/it, any "big boy" makes hollow.. with his/its favorite matters on it! make it for a very kühlen game does her/it the cool cups only the "DEEP" young, who doesn\'t drink at the breast,... and so on...
I hope that this works. My children were quite small as I held, so that has didn\'t I this stuggle. I, Binkie m, hadüht itself by 2 with my daughter from. We lost "" she/it one day, and she/it was O.K. with it!
He/it could have hard nights a couple.. troubles you in order to help for itself to bring him/it a new stuffed toy to sleep as well.
LUCK

I didn\'t cure my son of Michele J to one bottle of the breast... with particularly 22 months old this, beside the way... is, as I cured him/it of the breast.
I disaccustomed him/it to one cup. IchIch bought sippy-Tassen special, and I began with a few Fütterungen in the day, then, I did the night, that fed the absolutely last.
I didn\'t reduce him/it or go to his/its room upward, until he/it sleeping watching a film with me or cuddling only fell,... I did that for over one week and after it, no more "baba...."
After it, if he/it asked,... I said him/it, that the baba was broken,... oh, oh... no more baba..... and he/it was through and on some other, after he/it itself for one little had excited.
My son also was fast super. I fürchtete, to break him/it really, but it went better than expected.

from L, I wish, that I could inform you, as doing is, this my son was two if Stutfohlenhalte-ed Wir became he/it both over the holiday sick.
As ever the best, that I procured for you, he/it only with night to Wing down is, you are for the bed as part of you, the bed times routine. and speak with him/it over an end date and selects you together one, 2 weeks 1 months only guarantees, that it is he/it very consciously, so that not es\'s a surprise
Luck
and be sure that closes to hold about him/it, so that he/it can hear your heart after it, you are for it and after you held.

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Was in the same boat

from Suzy i, a sippy-Tasse would give him/it with something, which tastes good really well, until he/it was used for it, you let your breasts then dried up, if he/it wants to try breast feeding again, he/it will see that nothing delicious will come out,... luck!

from Moushy

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do you take the trouble to give him/it one bottle or a sother???

from Monica

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Get, a breast pumps and pumps your milk in small bottles, and stores her/it/them in the fridge.
After it, if you go, you begin slowly to feed him/it, first attempt with your breast, to place one bottle, with your milk (in his/its mouth,). you make this allmählich, until you land, still nourished \'t to breast, it worked for me:)
I hope that I helped.

from PeachPie

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the child now doesn\'t have any TEETH ummmmm? Doesn\'t he/it ißt thought solid food?I, that you should stop to nurse with 12 months,..... anyways, you only hold. Sie\'wieder in giveühr here, right? Buy him/it, any more nicely sippy makes hollow and makes him/it for some Hühnchen lumps. Er\'ll gets thereover.

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Mother of the twin 24 months of giving birth.

from Judith S

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I have a question. Who`s the Adult here? You/they remove it
something would remove from him/it like you. OMG. You/they führen me at. How you will have this child long,
the suction on your breast? It`s on to you, not him.STOP.